Dumped or the dumper? Planning on it or trying to get through it? I've been there on both counts many times. I'm here to say what I've learned and what I think helps. I hope it helps you or at least whiles away some time in which you think about yourself and not the UN-significant other. Happy Break-up!Ask me anything Submit
Nobody tells you about the hopeless months you’ll spend trying to make a relationship work with someone that doesn’t want it anymore. Nobody tells you how badly it hurts to see him walking with a new girl that was “just a friend”. Nobody tells you how many times you’ll sit in your room just trying to put it all together.
don’t blame yourself
if he only saw stones
where people find diamonds.
it’s okay to feel an emptiness
where your heart use to be.
It’s common to hunger him,
to want things to return to normalcy
do not look back. No matter
how hard things are
it will get easier,
things will be okay.
Found this today. I’ve followed. Isn’t this lovely?
There is much happiness in the world if you look for it. Actually, just open your eyes. See that child eating ice-cream and they look up at their mum and are just so excited about it?
See two old people walking hand in hand with each other?
See the way the girl at the shop smiles at you like you’ve made her day - she doesn’t have to do that.
See old friends meeting off the train and the big hug they give one another.
Hear that song that reminds you of a late night with friends and you just stop and breathe and remember the laughs?
Seriously, there’s so much happiness in the little things in this world as long as you are open to it.