Sometimes you forgive someone simply because you want them in your life. Remember that those who hurt you, don’t deserve you. Those who love you won’t desert you.
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Anonymous said: I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 yrs. she lies ,cheats, disrespects me alone and in front of others , she's abusive and has no respect for my belongings. She bully's me around and throws in my face how the add was when she cheated. How come I can't leave her ?
We all do it. We’re scared that this is all there is, and you’re probably so used to listening to her that you half-believe it too.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I really am.
Now. LEAVE HER.
That girl has emotional issues and she’s projecting onto you. She sounds like an absolutely horrible person and she needs to realise that she doesn’t deserve someone like you. Lies, cheats, disrespects you? She’s a nightmare! Let me tell you right now, you will definitely find someone way better than her.
Delete her, block her and cut all contact. Block her from all social media, your phone etc. Do not let that girl ever even be your friend because she does not deserve it and before you leave her, tell her how she WILL look back and regret how she treated you. And then buh-bye. You absolutely do have the strength to do this - you just have to believe it yourself.
I know I’m back together, I know I’ve moved on in many ways. I know that there are times I forget and that I’m so proud of the many things I’ve changed in my life since we split.
But you could have shared them. You weren’t the problem.
I’ve had people go before and it’s taken time to realise that, in small ways, they repressed a part of me, even without intending to. I’ve had people go and realised that I would be so much better off without them. Two years on, I’m still trying to convince myself that I’m better without you. I’m still not sure.
Somedays I don’t think of you. I definitely rarely think of you when I wake up anymore, but as the day drags on, in small ways, you creep into my mind and I wonder about you. It actually annoys me!
I feel like I picked up the pieces, glued them back together but… something didn’t go back right, because I’m not sure that I can ever be who I was with you, with anyone else, ever again.
Time, distance, life-changing events, thousands of miles between us and I still have a longing for you that I can tell no one about.