Anonymous said: My boyfriend of a year dumped after cheating on me because i couldn't give him what he wanted.. which was something I'm not ready to just give up... He told "If i could have given him what he needed this wouldn't have happened"... He has made me feel like i was not good enough, and that i could have been better... i did every thing i could for him.. I know in my heart that its not my fault and i deserve someone who loves me no matter what decisions i chose to make...But i need that extra push..
What an ass. I am so proud that you stood up for what you want and believe in, because in time to come you will never, ever regret that. How fabulous that you didn’t give him something that he didn’t deserve. Now you know you can wait to give it to someone who sees just how great you are (never mind his not good enough, those words will haunt him) and they will make you feel special, loved and never “not good enough”.
As you said, you did everything you could. As I always say no one ever leaves you because of something that you do, if they really love you, they love you in spite of what flaws you have, because they can’t do anything else.”
Well done you! I hope you heal well.
The secret isn’t to find someone you love spending time with - I love spending time with a lot of people. The secret isn’t to find someone that you find attractive - I find a lot of people attractive for many different reasons. The secret isn’t to find someone who is nice - there are tons of nice people in the world. The secret is to find someone who wants exactly what you want. Someone who is ready to give you all they’ve got, and in turn be ready to accept all the love you have to give. The world is filled with people in relationship of “loves you more” & “I have to act mean so they will like me back” or “I am just not ready.” Please do not waste any more of your precious time. You are an amazing creature. You deserve to be loved until your insides melt. Don’t give up on all the things you want. When you meet the right person you will have zero doubt in your mind. Zero.
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Codependency isn’t sexy. It isn’t romantic. It’s built with a fuse and will surely burn out. The healthiest thing you can say to the one you love is, “I would be okay without you, and that’s why I choose to stay.”
LB, A Few Things About Love (via queerable)
Years ago when people said her name, it felt like a knife in my chest. Now i can speak it without flinching.
It is both comforting and terrifying to know someday it will be the same with you.
Although there are bad days (for me too), I remind myself that I moved on from everyone else and got over them. I will get over you too.